i'm a proud mama. my kids are my world. i have a fiancee/husband type guy of 5 years. i'm into punk, industrial, blues and about a million other things. i will read anything that isn't nailed down. i'm obsessed with camo, pin-up models, body mods, thunderstorms, chicago,theoretical astrophysics, russian lit, existentialism and traveling, to name but a few things.

i smoke like a chimney and have zero desire to quit. i'm flamingly liberal. i've been called a pinko commie bastard and it does not bother me. a pessimist and a dreamer. i make a killer spaghetti and can bake challah that like you have no idea.

i love bourbon, can't eat sushi, and can talk philosophy and politics for hours. i have an unrepentant love for fall out boy, of which i should be embarrassed, but i'm not. i'm a bit of an intellectual snob, despite my rampant and unapologetic use of sentence fragments and flagrant disregard for capitalization. i look hawt in purple eyeliner. my nail polish is always chipped, my hair is usually a mess, and despite the fact that i have an obsessive love of shoes, i'm generally barefoot.

i'm an obnoxiously ambitious overachiever and a proud feminist, whose husband stays home with the kids. i'm also a submissive, in the bdsm sense. this little dichotomy seems to disturb people. i have a tendency to answer personal questions with the kind of honesty that makes people squirm.

if i stalk your profile repeatedly it's probably because you are interesting, or update fairly often, or both. if it bothers you, send me message tell me to fuck off, lol. i can deal. if you stalk my profile repeatedly, go ahead and send me a message! i love messages and will talk about just about anything.